Shaffy Bello DM drama reveals the Nollywood star slamming rude suitors as she shares her clear stance on marriage and dating younger men

Shaffy Bello DM messages are still buzzing—especially from younger men—but not all are welcome. At 54, the Nollywood star says she’s flattered by the attention but unimpressed by the crude approaches.

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Speaking on the Dear Ife podcast, Bello admitted, “Yes, men still slide into my DM. It’s flattering. But some are just badly behaved. You just want to insult their mother.”

Her sharp response to poorly crafted greetings like “Hi dear” reveals she’s not here for disrespectful flirting.

While Shaffy once dated a younger man “for a season,” she made it clear that fun is no longer her priority. “That season is over,” she stated. “I know for sure what I want now is marriage.”

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Bello also challenged traditional views on relationships in Nigeria, emphasizing she values a more open-minded take on marriage. Her powerful message signals growth, clarity, and the end of playful distractions.