Award-winning Nigerian musician Rema shares his perspective on family dynamics, suggesting that financial contributions from children often lead to more lenient parental attitudes

Renowned Afrobeats artist Divine Ikubor, widely known as Rema, sparked conversation recently during an interview with content creator Enzo.

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The “Calm Down” singer shared his belief that Nigerian parents tend to be less strict with children who significantly contribute to the family’s finances.

The discussion arose when Rema encouraged Enzo to get a tattoo, similar to his own. Enzo expressed hesitation, stating his mother’s disapproval, recalling an instance where she gave him the silent treatment for days after he braided his hair.

In response, Rema advised Enzo to focus on financial success, asserting, “Don’t worry, you just need to hustle a little bit more. Wait till you cash out big. Nigerian parents don’t advise breadwinners.”

Rema’s perspective is rooted in his own experience. He has previously disclosed that he became the breadwinner for his family as a teenager following the death of his father.

He recounted earning his first million naira at the age of 17 and giving the entire sum to his mother.